Kent McKean - How He Saved His Marriage (and His Life!) - Part 1
In this episode, Heather McKean is joined by her husband and Mind Change business partner, Kent McKean. Together, they explore the profound impact of Heather's healing journey from chronic illness on Kent's life and his marriage.
They delve into the mind-body connection, reflecting on how they couldn't fully comprehend it during Heather's challenging journey. The process unfolded on a subconscious level, hidden from their conscious awareness.
Kent opens up about the emotional challenges they faced as a couple. He shares how Heather's healing had a significant impact on his life, triggering fears of losing control and questioning his worthiness as someone who has always wanted to save the world.
As Heather found wellness, both experienced profound shifts and challenges. Kent felt frozen and lost, unsure of how to adapt to Heather's newfound identity. Simultaneously, he confronted his own health issues and the need to redefine his worth. The complexity of feeling happiness for his wife's recovery while grappling with his own path added to the journey.
They recognize that relationships mirror childhood experiences and subconscious programming, influencing their choices and behaviors. By addressing past traumas and beliefs, they seek to break free from these patterns and embrace authenticity, intimacy, and vulnerability.
Join Kent and Heather as they share their powerful story. This episode emphasizes the importance of healing past wounds to establish self-worth and authenticity. Stay tuned for the next episode, where Kent will delve into his own healing journey.
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Episode topics:
🎙️ Welcome to The Mind Change Podcast! (00:60)
😨 Watching Heather Go Through Illness: Fear and Being the "Strong" One (3:30)
💔 Emotional Challenges Faced as a Couple: Heather's Healing as a Life Shift (5:42)
🧠 Resolving Childhood Traumas and Subconscious Patterns (9:16)
💑 Unconscious Drivers in Choosing a Partner (12:12)
🤔 Kent's Struggles with Identity and Worthiness (16:12)
👥 Dealing with Complex Dynamics and Kent's Depression (19:01)
🧒 Attachment and Regulation Issues from Childhood (23:17)
⚖️ Sacrifices and Career Changes for the Relationship (27:30)
💪 Heather's Recovery and Kent's Fear of Losing Value (29:49)
💔 Challenging the Relationship: Heather's Authenticity & Intimacy Scary to Kent (31:34)
😨 Facing Fears and Adapting to Change (36:10)
💎 Discoveries: Heather’s Inner Worth & Kent’s Need for Personal Change (38:06)
😊 Kent Navigating Incongruence in Heather's Healing: Happiness vs. Unhappiness (42:41)